WILL VALENTINO GO TO HEAVEN?
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Among my emails the other day was one
from a lady telling the sad story of her 21 year-old cat's terminal disease.
She ended her report with these words:
“What
I want to know is about heaven for animals…I am beginning to question heaven
in general. I just need some comfort here, Reverend Morgan. Will my sweet
Valentino go to heaven? Will someone or something, come to guide him to the
next world? Will he be at peace? Please help me."
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I hate that kind of question, but will
not escape by quoting the church's traditional theological answers. And I
will not lay claim to any special inside information. And, comforting as
it might be, I won't say, “Yes, of course Valentino will go to heaven.
Of course he will be at peace.” For all I know he may.
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This kind of question may not mean anything
to people who have never loved and lost a pet. A pet is like family or a
best friend. Death is a loss, a separation. And separations produce grief.
The lady, of course was anticipating this grief and wanted to lighten it.
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What pet owners and lovers know is that
these animals have distinct personalities. They have minds and senses and
feelings and understandings that don't show up in words. Many people, especially
those who are alone, talk to their pets and pour out their feelings. Many
pets respond with uncanny understanding. If humans have a heaven why should
pets be left behind? In many ancient cultures pets are depicted as entering
the afterlife with their owners.
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I think that we can learn something
about our relationship with nature by paying attention to our ability to
relate to our pets and them with us.
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There is a connection. We “civilized”
people have lost too much of that. One book that will give us a wake up call
in this regard is “The Spell of the Sensuous,” by David Abram. He combines
history, anthropology, ecology and philosophy to call us back to a time when
human beings did not consider themselves separate from pets, animals or any
part of natural life.
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The sections on language remind us that
spoken, and especially written, language is late in the evolution process.
Long before human language there were other forms of communication. When
humans were closer to nature we understood the language of birds and animals
and insects and other creatures. A fisher can read a river, a geologist can
read a landscape, and a sailor can read the sky. You get the idea.
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We've gradually quit most of our
interaction with the world outside of human beings. We have become rather
arrogant about assumed superiority. The loss of this ability to talk to trees
and rocks and rivers and creatures has led to great disrespect for the world
of which we are a part.
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What I did say to the lady about Valentino
and heaven was that
“We all share the same web of life, whether we are oysters or eagles or
humans or cats. Each is unique in that we have had the wondrous opportunity
to have landed on this small planet that has proven especially hospitable
to the evolution of a species like our own, as well as unknown numbers of
other equally amazing appearances of life.
We share
the same journey, although in different lengths and with different awareness.
Your Valentino is part of this miraculous web as are you. Most religions
have some sense of continuation, although ideas and religions differ. The
idea of “heaven” is a sort of umbrella term for the great unknown ‘in which
we live and move and have our being.’ It is natural to hope for some kind
of life and recognition of loved companions after death. You may hold a hope
in your heart that is as true as that of anyone else.”
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Those of us raised in the Christian
tradition need to understand that the early church, which wrote the New Testament,
held out heaven as a hope to encourage faith during persecution. We also
need to understand that Jesus hardly talked about heaven, but about abundant
life here and now and living in right relationship with one another. That's
how to love God, he taught, by loving our neighbor as ourselves.
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It is a good thing, I think, that people
grieve over their pets. It’s a reminder that there's more to nature than
human nature.. And it’s encouraging to know that people love enough to wish
for their pets what they wish for themselves. Would that we felt the same
toward the whole earth.
─ Art Morgan, January 5, 2007
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