COLLATERAL DAMAGE
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I was at the gym working on the “hamstring
curl” machine when a fellow stopped to comment about Dick Cheney’s mis-hap.
Most of the time we all stick to our own workouts, but he wanted to say his
say.
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He was speaking from the point of view
of a hunter. He liked bird hunting. This Blue Sheet goes to a fair number
who are or have been hunters. It also goes to some who love bird watching.
I'm trusting in some transcending level of acceptance by both types.
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Anyway, this man wanted to speak his
speech about hunting. He told about what he was taught by his dad. It is
the same thing any of us who have ever fired a gun was, or should have been
taught. I assume Dick Cheney was taught the same thing.
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He could not understand how anyone was
putting the blame on the man who got shot. Of course, if you are around someone
who is shooting, you are foolish to be anywhere near harms way. The one with
the hand on the trigger is taught to know who is in range.
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That being said, no hunter wants to
have such a thing happen. No matter what, one assumes that Cheney must feel
very badly. As I commented to my gym friend, why would Cheney take a chance
of hurting a big time contributor? It was supposed to be a little joke.
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The other thought that came to me was
that Cheney has established a metaphor which cannot be avoided. He has given
us a new way of portraying collateral damage.
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As I get it, collateral damage is what
happens while you are aiming at a specific target but inadvertently also
hit something or someone else. Early in the Iraq war there was a lot said
about “smart weapons” which were presumably creating shock and awe by coming
in on selected targets. I am sure that Cheney had his eye on the grouse and
expected to hit it and nothing else.
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Alas. Collateral damage happens. In
fact, by some accounts, more people have died from collateral damage in Iraq
than from being the designated target. We have heard the generals, not to
mention Mr. Cheney and Mr. Rumsfeld, describe such incidents as an unfortunate
but necessary result of war. Which is probably true. The limbless and maimed
and dead, of all ages and sexes on all sides are grim proof.
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But I'm not wanting to play the blame
game. It doesn't fix anything. However, the metaphor helps us understand a
reality about what we all do in life. We aim not to hurt anyone, but we all
do it from time to time.
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If you've ever been married you know
that you sometimes say things that miss the mark and cause hurt. In fact,
those of us who preach or write are guilty of this more than we can ever
know. Our actions turn against people who don't deserve the consequences that
occur. They are not the target, but they take the hit.
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I think of children I used to see in
custodial care, innocently suffering the results of their parent's misguided
behavior. Anyone who knows the statistics of divorce knows that children
usually feel the sting of the shots and shouts of the parents who claim to
love them. Parents don't mean to cause harm to children while fighting personal
demons. But collateral damage happens.
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Most of us have enough humanity in us
to hurt when we cause hurt. Who really wants a good friend to lie wounded
by one's own shot? Not meaning to do it doesn't fix it. If we're lucky, there
may be forgiveness. Or maybe not. In fact, forgiveness is about all we can
hope for.
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There's a song that was sung in
the Baptist-Disciple Student Fellowship I once attended at the University
of Washington. It was a closing circle song. It went something like this:
If I have wounded any soul today, if
I have walked in my own willful way,
If I have
caused one foot to go astray, dear Lord forgive.
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There's also a line in the Lord's
Prayer. I grew up using the term, forgive us our debts, but
I think the old King James may have the better word when it says forgive
us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.
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When collateral damage happens it is
a trespass. We have gone where we should not have gone. No matter
our intention or excuse. The Jesus tradition recognizes this reality so offers
us a prayer line to deal with it. It has application in our involvement in
Iraq. It has application for Mr. Cheney who showered his friend in a way he
did not intend. It applies to all of us. Forgive us our collateral damage.
─ Art Morgan, Valentine's Day, 2006
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