GOTCHA!
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Do you enjoy those TV political ads?
I’ve finally figured out the name of their game. “Gotcha!”
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Assuming somewhat correctly that the
average citizen doesn’t give long-term attention to actual big time issues,
campaign managers entertain us with a game. We get hooked, wanting to find
out the latest gaff or outrage uncovered from the distant past of the opposing
candidate.
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The latest allegation doesn’t have to
quote the opposition in context or prove that the allegation is true. Insinuation
works as well as fact in “gotcha!”
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There is always a hope that something
will prove to be the fatal “gotcha” that ends the opponent’s chances.
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I traced my gut reaction to the game
back to counseling days.
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If you’ve ever listened to a couple
going at each other openly you’ve probably seen the same game. Old hurts
that have been “gunny sacked” are brought out of the bag. It can go back
and forth. “Gotcha! It’s not easy to endure. It is rare that any of the old
stuff matters. Every relationship has a history of things that should not
have been said or done. I can’t remember anyone ever winning the “gotcha”
game.
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Love “fore-gives.” In the context of
a loving relationship it has to be assumed that there will be wrongs and
hurts. The past cannot be undone. Some things are best forgotten, or at least
not kept as ammunition for the next game of “gotcha!”
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Some people think of religion as a
game of “gotcha” played against God.
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The idea is that the Grandfather or
Grandmother of the universe is somewhere above or around keeping track of
all that we say or do. Someone gave me a woven “Ojo de Dios” to be hung in
my house. I’ve just looked quickly at many things hanging on my office wall.
Lots of hanging stuff, but the Eye of God is not among them. The closest to
it is an olive wood cross that I once bought in Jerusalem.
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With or without a picture of God or
Buddha or Jesus or your parent or grandparent, most people still have a subconscious
sense of being watched. We don’t get away with anything. Our computer type
brains save everything even though we try to delete unwanted memories. There
are moments from our childhood that can pop up to remind us that we were
not always (if ever!) perfect. Everyone has more “gotcha” moments than we
care to think about.
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The question is, do you think that there
is a God that remembers all those things you can’t forget?
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This is where the Christian religion
comes to a divide. Old time religion preaches a God that demands justice,
who monitors each and every failing. The pulpit preached toward “conviction,”
so that the hearer would remember all sins past and present, actual and imagined.
“Gotcha!” You’re guilty. The solution (preached as good news) is that even
though we can’t get rid of all those dark blotches in our lives, God has
saved us by sacrificing his only begotten son. Though our sins are like scarlet
we are made white as snow.
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That kind of God plays “gotcha” until
we admit our guilt then pulls us out of the fire. That idea is at the core
of the larger percentage of people who claim to be Christians.
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On the other side of the divide are
those who don’t believe in any kind of God or power that plays “gotcha.”
The idea of a “gotcha” playing God has made atheists and agnostics out of
many thoughtful and questioning people. There are also many “progressive Christians”
among them.
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The name “progressive Christianity”
has been coined to describe a movement that embraces biblical sources but
does not interpret them literally. This makes a huge difference in one’s
perception of God. It sees Jesus as a model for what divinity looks like
in action. He doesn’t play “gotcha!” As he goes through the country side
and mingles with the crowds he doesn’t seem to care about people’s faults.
In fact he doesn’t ask about their beliefs. He heals anyone who needs it.
He is a friend to all sorts of people, many rejected in the old “gotcha”
game. His game was not “gotcha,” but was one of acceptance and forgiveness.
“Neither do I condemn you,” he says.
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I’m short-cutting
the way the game is played differently by different religious groups. The
point is that it’s a bad game. It misses the point where ever it is played.
Do you ever play it? Gotcha! We all do, but shouldn’t.
─ Art Morgan, April 22, 2008
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