THE LAST LECTURE
Randy Pausch
With Jeffrey Zaslow
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Last summer,
on August 15, 2007, 47 year-old Randy Pausch learned that his pancreatic
cancer had spread into his liver. This cancer is essentially untreatable
with 50% of patients living approximately 6 months and 96% living less than
5 years. The doctor told him that he was no longer working to save Randy’s
life but to extend his life with the highest quality of life possible. Randy
lived until July 25th, 2008. There are no training manuals for how to receive
such news.
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Wanting to leave something of himself
for his three small children he prepared a “Last Lecture,” with them
in mind. Professors at Carnegie Mellon University had a tradition of offering
a “last lecture” when leaving the University in which they considered their
life’s end and what matters most to them. Although it came on his wife’s
birthday and they were cherishing each minute of his limited time, he decided
to do the lecture. This book is made from that lecture, presented by Pausch
with a Power Point that included his main points and photos of life along
the way.
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He called his presentation, “Achieving
Your Childhood Dreams.” A great number of his stories come from his childhood
during which dreams were planted that steered his life.
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Over 400 showed up at the lecture hall.
His introduction after a few humorous comments was a gripper. He began with
“the elephant in the room,” what everyone knows but isn’t talking about.
He names the elephant – pancreatic cancer – even showing the CT scans with
the 10 tumors on his liver pointed out with red arrows. He still looked healthy
and generally felt healthy and spoke with clarity and humor. “If I don’t
seem as sorry and morose as I should be, sorry to disappoint you…I am in
phenomenally good shape right now…In fact, I’m in better shape than most
of you.” He stepped to the center of the stage and got down and
did some push ups!
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He had his audience where he wanted
them. I can’t think of a more captivating introduction to a talk.
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His talk was a series of brief stories,
each telling of an imprint made on his life, almost always with a simple
lesson. This collection of lessons is worth keeping and reviewing. Embedded
in these stories are occasional glimpses of how a person – how a couple –
deals with living with a terminal illness.
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Randy was an educator. He remembered
the things that helped him and included them in his teaching process. Personality
issues were included in his instruction. He was teaching skills for making
a living and skills for living a life. No wonder the book released in April
has sold almost 2 and ½ million copies in 29 languages.
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This is the kind of book one could use
as a daily devotional, reading one brief section a day, followed by some
moments of reflective thought. It could be a life-changer. It is also the
kind of book that could make its way to one of those flip over day calendars
to be read a day at a time.
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I think that people who live with a
bad diagnosis will value this book. Pausch has a perspective that is helpful.
Many will have already thought of some of the things he articulates so well.
His humor is inspiring. Like when one of his doctors told him: “It’s important
to behave as though you’re going to around for awhile.” Randy was already
ahead of him and told him: “Doc, I just bought a new convertible and got
a vasectomy. What more do you want from me?” He balances optimism and
realism.
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Caregivers and surviving friends and
loved ones will find counsel in Randy’s words. It is not a book about dying
from cancer; it is a book about living the fullest possible life in what
time you have.
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*I heard on the morning news that another
47 year-old had died, the author of the book “100 Things I want to do
before I Die.” He died from a head injury in some kind of an accident.
He had done 50 of the things on his list.
─ Art Morgan, August 26, 2008
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