Points are awarded now
for life transitions.
Too many
and you're in trouble!
Death of Spouse 100
Divorce
73
Marital separation 65
Jail term
63
Death in family 63
Injury or illness
53
Get married
50
Lose job
47
Reconciliation
45
Retire
45
The list goes on...
and you are told
to limit changes.
The problem is not
to limit changes
but to survive them!
Transitions are a kind of
grief...
a real life threat.
Something is lost
never to be regained...
needing to be put behind.
It's time for special care
when transition points
go into triple digits.